1. From Psychology Today:

    Extroverted people perform well in the presence of some background noise, and have no problem learning prose passages or solving arithmetic problems with a TV on, studies show. Since extroverts operate in a state of constant underarousal, they require more stimulation and are better equipped to tolerate noise-induced stress. Not only do they have no trouble getting work done in a loud office, but the noise actually helps relieve their boredom.

    and

    Introverted people with neurotic tendencies suffer when forced to work in noisy environments. Given their high baseline arousal, low awareness of what’s going on around them, and low tolerance for external stimulation, they don’t cope well with noise stressors. For them, quiet places like libraries are most conducive to peak work performance.

  2. ➞ Ten Mindful Ways to Use Social Media | Tricycle

    practicalopacity:

    I’ve realized, however, that the greatest lesson we can all learn is that less is enough. In a time when connections can seem like commodities and online interactions can become casually inauthentic, mindfulness is not just a matter of fostering increased awareness. It’s about relating meaningfully to other people and ourselves.

    It’s hard to go wrong with any of the recommendations on this list.

  3. A vague and gnawing pang of anxiety centered around an IM window that has lulled. During this time an individual feels unsure whether they have offended the IM recipient, committed a breach of IM etiquette, or have otherwise spoilt the presentation of themselves carefully crafted thus far thanks to the miracles of the textual medium. The individual must be at least vaguely aware that they are being vaguely paranoid, and must tell themselves things like ‘he probably just stepped away from the keyboard’ or ‘I know she is at work right now so perhaps she has stopped replying because she is busy.’ This sentiment of anxiety must surface only after an extremely brief lapse in the pace of the conversation [range of ~30 seconds to 1 minute], and the individual must tell themselves things like ‘it has only been like a minute, don’t worry.’ The individual may mull a mental history of their prior IM conversations with the subject and with others in an attempt to gauge whether the lull is ‘normal’, or to extrapolate what the lull might indicate about the subject’s sentiment toward them.  The individual may experience elevated heart rate and depersonalization, and while staring at the screen with an unfocused expression, have catastrophic thoughts about their romantic history, their ability to be liked by others in the future or their key flaws.
    The remaining four are also worth reading.

  4. brit:

This is awesome. Though at the same time, I’m afraid to introduce my mom to emoji for fear she will unleash the same way.
indiekid:

My mom is really good at Emoji (Taken with Instagram at San Francisco International Airport (SFO) ✈)



Interesting side note:  If you have an iPhone and someone with Emoji texts you, you can copy and paste their Emojis into other texts.  My wife has it, and swiping the 3 or 4 useful icons from texts she has sent me has prevented me from needing to install it (and, naturally, drive all of my iPhone-enabled friends nuts with waves of pictographic MMS).  

    brit:

    This is awesome. Though at the same time, I’m afraid to introduce my mom to emoji for fear she will unleash the same way.

    indiekid:

    My mom is really good at Emoji (Taken with Instagram at San Francisco International Airport (SFO) ✈)

    Interesting side note:  If you have an iPhone and someone with Emoji texts you, you can copy and paste their Emojis into other texts.  My wife has it, and swiping the 3 or 4 useful icons from texts she has sent me has prevented me from needing to install it (and, naturally, drive all of my iPhone-enabled friends nuts with waves of pictographic MMS).  

    (via brit)

  5. Clive Thompson on How Tweets and Texts Nurture In-Depth Analysis:

     When something newsworthy happens today — Brett Favre losing to the Jets, news of a new iPhone, a Brazilian election runoff — you get a sudden blizzard of status updates. These are just short takes, and they’re often half-baked or gossipy and may not even be entirely true. But that’s OK; they’re not intended to be carefully constructed. Society is just chewing over what happened, forming a quick impression of What It All Means.

    The long take is the opposite: It’s a deeply considered report and analysis, and it often takes weeks, months, or years to produce. It used to be that only traditional media, like magazines or documentaries or books, delivered the long take. But now, some of the most in-depth stuff I read comes from academics or businesspeople penning big blog essays, Dexter fans writing 5,000-word exegeses of the show, and nonprofits like the Pew Charitable Trusts producing exhaustively researched reports on American life.

    The long take also thrives on the long tail. Whereas a tweet becomes dated within minutes, a really smart long take holds value for years. Back in the ’90s, my magazine articles vanished after the issue left the newsstand. But now that the pieces are online, readers email me every week saying they’ve stumbled upon something years old.

    The real loser here is the middle take. This is what the weeklies like Timeand Newsweek have historically offered: reportage and essays produced a few days after major events, with a bit of analysis sprinkled on top. They’re neither fast enough to be conversational nor slow enough to be truly deep. The Internet has essentially demonstrated how unsatisfying that sort of thinking can be.

    This trend has already changed blogging. Ten years ago, my favorite bloggers wrote middle takes — a link with a couple of sentences of commentary — and they’d update a few times a day. Once Twitter arrived, they began blogging less often but with much longer, more-in-depth essays.

  6. „I think all anyone really wants, if they’re honest with themselves, is a quiet, easy life surrounded by people that love them. Anything else is a conceit.“

    2 Years In Prison - A Man’s Story, compiled from a bunch of threads on one of the chan forums from back in July of this year. Riveting. (via communicatrix)

    (via communicatrix)

  7.  

    Responding to Paul Graham’s Maker’s Schedule, Manager’s Schedule essay from a couple summers back:

    Managers tend to schedule in one hour blocks.  There’s usually not a question about whether or not there’s a meeting at 2:00; it’s a question of who that meeting is with.

    Makers tend to think in half-day blocks, scheduling three, four, or more hours for a single task.  Writing, coding, creative problem solving, etc., are all done best with a lot of hours put toward them all at once.

    I’ve found the same tension in my own schedule as well.  Some of my work makes perfect sense in hour-long segments.  But some of it really needs to be in half-day chunks: building websites really requires at least two hours of solid attention to get anything significant accomplished, and often more.

    I’ve gotten much better at scheduling meetings to give me the half-day chunks I want for coding or writing.  Here are some of the ways I’ve balanced it:

    • My first step is to try to pack the meetings together.  If I have the choice, I’d rather have a 1:00 and then a 2:30 and then a 4:00 as opposed to a 10:00, 1:00, and 4:00, which leaves a lot of awkward space in the middle.
    • I try to make busy days busier.  If there are already three meetings on one day, there may as well be five.  I’ll schedule more on that day to try to keep other days free.
    • When there’s no avoiding having a lone meeting on a day, I’ll usually try to schedule it at the end of the day to give me the morning and early afternoon for work.

    More in the link.  

  8. ➞ Minimal Mac: Airplane Mode

    Patrick recounts lunch with a busy, important friend who put his phone in Airplane Mode (effectively cutting off incoming messages and phone calls) during their time together.  

    minimalmac:

    My first thought was, wow, what a show of respect for me and our time together. I was honored and humbled by this simple act that broadcasted that nothing was more important to him (and, trust me, he has other things far more important).

    Secondly, it got me to thinking why he chose Airplane Mode versus turning the phone off. After a few minutes at lunch it became readily apparent. We were showing photos across the table about our recent travels and activities. We were sharing tips, ideas and links and taking notes. We were communing and catching up by using this tremendously powerful technology in ways that enriched the conversation, not distracted from it.

    … 

  9. [Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]

    merlin:

    [mp3]

    What Dan and Merlin said after we hit “STOP.”

    Post B2W ep. 03. (subscribe)

    In the aftershow audio, Merlin mentions the “I can’t sleep because someone is wrong on the Internet” phenomenon.  So, fine, I’ll be that guy:

    Merlin (or, technically, Merlin’s shrink) pronounces salience with a short “A” sound (“sally-ence” rather than “saily-ence”).  My psych profs and Dictionary.com all say it’s a long A.

    Also—that “3 weeks to form a habit” thing?  False.  

    Despite these shortcomings, this is hands-down my favorite thing on the web right now.  Listen.

    UPDATE:  Almost immediately, Merlin smacked me down, making two very good points against my “corrections.”  To be clear, I am playfully riffing upon the Gruber-has-notes/someone-is-wrong-on-the-Internet stuff.  But still, I’m suitably chastised.  And having a good day; being one-upped and insulted by one of your internet heroes is surprisingly gratifying.  

  10. minimalistjournal:

    When working by the hour, there is an economic incentive to take longer to complete a task, but a professional incentive to be efficient. I don’t want competing motivations. Why are the hours spent on a task even relevant? I want to sell value rather than my time.

    Indeed.

    Even if you punch a clock (metaphorically or not), consider whether you fill that time with meaning, contribution, and authentic connections, or if you are just filling that time, passing that time, waiting for the end of that time.